My insulin Log

Since Mom’s death, Step dad took college education fund set aside for grandchildren for personal use, took 15 year old life insurance policy that was originally designated to children as beneficary, had it changed while she was ill (5 Months before death) and to top that off he lead the tribe to belief that mom had no next of kin living in hopes that her ground would go to him because has he says he deserves it. Mom was ill with copd, emphysema, congestive heart failure, diabetic, kidney and liver problems, short term memory on high dosage of oxygen, but refused to wear most of time. Gave children back very little of moms things, and to top this off he called yesterday to tell us he is not going through with plans of designated spot for scattering her ashes at her request. He says she is dead any, I paid for the funeral, and supported her, it is my decision and what I want. (funeral cost was covered 100 percent by the tribe, he got a check to cover the exspense and all he had to do was sign it over to the funeral home, as far as support goes, she worked and he stayed home and drew social security. Now he says he is just going to scatter her ashes in several different places around town, says she will not be lonely that way, says no one is going to want to drive up on the mountain top to see her and he does not want to make the drive. Step dad planning on leaving this area completely anyway as soon as the house is sold so he will not be around for memorial day any way. I feel that honoring your loved ones last wishes is the respectful thing to do and that his actions have dishonored her. It also worrys me about her ashes being separated instead of left in one central location. I have heard that several religions believe that if you seperate the ashes to a wide spread area that it makes it impossible to put the body back with the soul someday. It worrys me, and makes me angry that there is nothing I can do.
Step-dad will not let us have them. Does not care what mom wishes were, she dead anyway. he got the life insurance policy switched when she was ill to her name, Mom stated she thought someone was dipping into the college fund which disappeared. he knew it was set aside for grandchildren did not honor it. Found out recently he was divorced from his first wife due to child molestation. Mom was his second wife. Us kids are from first marriage. Step-dad told probate that she had no blood relatives living. I did get that straighten out. nezperce tribe says that when it comes to the land it follows the bloodline and first in time first in line applys. I am just upset over everything. Step-dad knew her wishes and refuses to honor them.
oops that should read he got her life insurance policy switched to his name when she was ill. and he will not let us have the ashes.